Propose a change you could make to one of your habits, that would reduce your time preference from high (instant gratification) to low (delayed gratification) time preference. It could relate to any aspect of your life (financial, diet, exercise, relationships or education).
I am at an age and life cycle
where my husband and I are now benefiting from putting off instant gratification for larger future gains. I invested steadily over the years and though we had a modest income we were thrifty and we retired a little early with our house
and cars
paid off.
I had always imagined retirement lifestyle would be about the same but when we went from saving for retirement to spending our retirement money it was a shocker. We had much more money
than we needed to live the way we wanted! Why? Because our expenses were reduced by the house payment, car payments and we no longer needed to save money for retirement, or pay payroll tax. Now I have to wrap my mind around how to spend the extra money.
So I have been applying the same techniques that I have practiced for years of keeping a budget, reconciling my spending to that budget, and projecting my finances to change my habits of not spending to spending responsibly. You know the greatest danger is overspending when you get a windfall. Most lottery winners end up in worse shape than they were in before winning.
I created a budget that included the vacations
and home renovations that we had always denied ourselves. I raised the monthly budgets for many other categories like dinning, clothing, and gifts. I compare my behavior to my budget each month and force myself to spend more if I am falling behind. I know it sounds odd, but it is hard to break old habits.
I want to tell you that delayed gratifications works. It doesnāt look like much at first. The gains are slow, then after a while the compounding kicks in and the investments grow like magic.